A guide to requesting reference letters from me. Last updated: 2023-12-24.
If you’re aiming for grad school, you’ll most likely need a few Profs to agree to write letters/fill out forms in support of your application. Be prepared for this and start thinking about it early. You should also always ask first, before you put someone’s name down. This is also true for job reference etiquette generally.
My policy is not to agree to write a reference for students if they have not completed a course with me.
To be able to write a reference that would actually strengthen your application, my usual minimum criteria is at least two out of the following activities with me:
Some examples of students I have said yes to (Univeristy of Toronto):
Further things to keep in mind:
I need at least 3–5 week’s notice before your reference is due.
I will write in support of 3 programs per student.
I will only agree if I can write you a strong letter. Anything less is a waste of your and my time. Example of things I am frequently asked to rate about students that a good grade alone won’t tell me:
Clarity of Goals for Graduate Study
Oral Expression in English
Ability to Work Independently
Ability to Work with Others
Research Potential
Motivation
“Humility” and “sense of humour” are other examples that I personally hate, but your chosen program(s) might ask.
If offered (i.e., if there is a tick box), please waive your right to access the report. (You can ask me directly if I am comfortable sharing it with you.) This is usually just for American schools, you can read more here.
DON’T offer to write a draft for me (I don’t accept this, and schools may ask you to declare something like “I confirm that I will not write any portion of this evaluation, nor will I have any involvement in its drafting or submission.” anyways), DO provide lots of specific details, examples and relevant files when completing the request form or subsequent details form (there is a second form if I approve you first request). Tell me enough that I could approve/write this even if I got partial amnesia.
I am not currently taking new requests until February 2024.
Requests sent to the UofT form in the second half of 2023 were not available to me as I am no longer with the University of Toronto. My apologies for not updating the instructions here sooner to reflect that.
If you believe you meet my basic criteria, you can request a reference from me here. I will then accept or decline based on the the information provided.
Several students have very sensibly asked what they should do if they plan to work for a year or two before grad school. A great question and my attempt to provide some clarity below.
So firstly, the ‘two activity criterion’ (from above) still applies, but you don’t need to fill out the form now.
IFF (if and only if) you meet my criteria, let me know that this is what you’re considering. Do it via email so a few years from now when you ask and I search your name, I’ll have a record of the conversation.
Create a folder/document with notes about the things I might know about you.
See my general advice here.
This will be on a bit more of a case-by-case basis. I really do want to support as many of you as I can! Email me directly to discuss jobs/scholarships/internships etc. Please keep in mind, if all I can say about you is that “Student X took my course and got grade Y”, I’m not going to be very useful to you.
Please also note that you should also always ask first, before you put someone’s name down.